Arrangements
We understand that making the many decisions which come at a time of loss can be difficult.
Listed below is a guideline of the decisions that we will assist you in making.
If
you have any questions or concerns regarding these decisions or to
speak to one of our caring, professional staff members, please call us
at (706) 778-8668.
We are available 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
Make "First Calls"
When someone dies various parties must be immediately notified, including:
- The attending physician,
a coroner or medical examiner to officially pronounce the death. If the
deceased is in a hospital or other care facility, this is typically
arranged by the staff of that facility.
- Local law enforcement should be contacted first if the death is not attended, by a physician, or is due to unknown circumstances.
- Family members
or a legal representative of the deceased. They will need to locate the
deceased's pre-arranged funeral plan, if one exists, for direction in
how to proceed with funeral arrangements.
- A Funeral Director to transfer the body from the place of death to a funeral home.
Funeral Arrangements
Planning
a funeral involves making a myriad of decisions concerning everything
from choosing a final resting place ... to selecting a casket ... to
deciding on pallbearers.
We will help you plan the
funeral ceremonies and then direct the ceremonies in accordance with
your wishes, including coordinating with the cemetery, crematory or any
other outside individuals. We also handle the technical services
regarding the care, preparation, presentation, and final disposition of
the deceased.
Choices that must be made when arranging a funeral include:
Method of interment
- Will the deceased be buried or entombed?
- Will the deceased be cremated? If so, will the cremated remains be buried, entombed, scattered or kept by the family?
- Will the body be donated to science? Will organs be donated?
Ceremonies
- Will
there be a traditional funeral with the casket present or a memorial
service without the presence of the casket? Will both types of services
be held or no ceremonies at all?
- Where will the ceremonies be held? At a funeral home? At a place of worship? At the graveside?
- Will there be one or more visitations? If so, will the casket be open or closed?
- Will the deceased be embalmed?
- Who will participate in the funeral ceremonies? Clergy? Pallbearers? Speakers? Musicians or vocalists?
- Will the ceremonies feature certain music, readings, or tributes?
- Will there be a procession to the cemetery? Will the deceased be transported in a hearse? Will family travel in a limousine?
Select Funeral Merchandise and Memorial Items
The necessary funeral merchandise and any desired memorials can be purchased from the funeral home. Your options include:
- Casket:
If the body will be buried, you will need to choose a casket. There are
many types of caskets to accommodate varied tastes, sizes and budgets.
They can be made of metals or woods. The casket's interior fabric can be
of varied materials, colors and designs.
- Outer burial container:
Most cemeteries require an outer burial container to place the casket
in for burial. Their primary purpose is to support the soil. The minimum
requirement is usually a concrete box. Burial vaults are more
sophisticated enclosures that may be made of concrete and lined with
plastic or metal. When the body will be entombed in a mausoleum, the
cemetery does not require any container beyond the casket.
- Urn:
When cremation is the choice for final arrangements, an urn is needed
to hold the ashes. Even if the family plans to scatter the ashes, a
container will be needed to hold the ashes until the scattering takes
place. Urns are available in marble, wood or metals such as bronze or
steel. They can be personalized with engravings, military medallions,
and emblems.
- Grave marker: Grave markers
can be made of stone such as granite or marble or metals, such as
bronze. Memorials lie flush with the ground. Monuments sit upright and
vary in size. Before purchasing a grave marker find out about your
cemetery's rules and regulations governing marker placement and type.
- Online memorials:
Families can remember loved ones with lasting memorials on the world
wide web. These memorials are available on a variety of websites and
typically include a biography and photo of your loved one, as well as
personal remembrances provided by family members and friends.
Cemetery Arrangements
A
cemetery is the place where the dead are buried or interred -- a "final
resting place" for the deceased. A typical cemetery offers various
types of grave spaces for earth burial and mausoleum crypts for
entombment. Similar options are available for burial or entombment of
cremated remains. The cemetery also provides services to open and close
the grave or crypt and to install grave markers. Some cemeteries charge
recurring fees for the perpetual maintenance of the grounds.
Since
you are likely to visit the cemetery periodically to remember your
loved one, location is an important consideration in selecting a
cemetery. Many people purchase cemetery property in advance to relieve
their survivors of this responsibility.
Post-funeral Arrangements
Following
the funeral a variety of financial, legal and administrative matters
must be addressed. The tasks you may need to do include:
- Sending acknowledgement notes expressing gratitude for flowers, donations and special assistance.
- Commencing estate proceedings.
Whether an extensive Probate proceeding is necessary is determined by
the size of the estate and the existence of a will and living trusts. An
Executor, named in the will or appointed by the Probate Court will
shepherd the estate through this process. Also, it may be necessary to
hire an estate planning attorney to provide legal guidance.
- Accounting for all assets and debts of the deceased.
Make arrangements to pay outstanding bills. It may be necessary to have
the Probate Court release short-term funds to cover these bills.
- Filing death benefit claims
with insurance companies, Social Security, the Veterans Administration,
pension/retirement funds, unions, etc. Certified copies of the death
certificate are usually required in making these claims.
- Changing all jointly held accounts including, bank accounts, credit cards, mortgages, loans, brokerage accounts, stocks, bonds and other investments.
Sending notifications of death to:
- Employers
- Fraternal, social, and religious organizations
- State and local agencies, such as the Department of Motor Vehicles, to transfer all licenses and titles
- Telephone, utility, newspaper and any other services that are registered in the deceased's name